\n□ 愛得卑躬屈膝,甚至失去自尊
\n□ 任何付出都變得理所當然
\n□ 無視或被迫接受對方出軌
如符合以上至少兩個條件,說明你正處於一段不平等的有毒關係。不過愛情總是你情我願,一個願打,一個願捱,假如你處於愛到失去自我的階段,請參閱鄧小巧《討好式戀愛》。
\n\n*問卷純發洩用途,並非鼓吹分手
\n\n《討好式戀愛》的出現,緣於小巧一次與AGA茶聚邀歌,AGA特意重溫她的網上演出來鑽研其選曲喜好、聲線特色跟情感,再修改demo,為小巧度身訂造歌曲。同樣首次合作的監製舒文,在錄音上一貫力臻完美,在咬字及感情運用等,給予小巧很多指導;二人又探討「療癒」的課題,認為有被療傷的需要,一定曾經歷過痛,而今次AGA的曲,非常適合悲慘至極的詞。副歌「討好你深得你心愛哪需理由 」是她最花時間寫的歌詞,因為舒文希望能用一句,便交代歌曲中心,訴說這種愛有多轟烈。
\n\n《討好式戀愛》由AGA江海迦譜曲,Johnny Yim編曲及舒文監製,小巧以朋友愛得卑微的經歷,化作填詞靈感,希望仍沉溺在《討好式戀愛》的你,在學懂自愛前,一起走過苦戀,自虐愉快。
\n
\n【歌詞】
作曲:AGA 江海迦
\n填詞:鄧小巧
\n編曲:Johnny Yim
\n監製:舒文@Zoo Music
多一點順應他
\n\n少一點我不怕
\n\n不要衡量是誰偏差
\n\n討好式戀愛對嗎
\n\n避開爭執強裝優雅
\n\n不要呈現問題分岔
\n\n犧牲腰骨風骨
\n\n只配合你準則
\n\n討好你深得你心愛哪需理由
\n\n漸失去自尊也越討厭自己 最後
\n\n卑躬屈膝 通通接受
\n\n討好你得心應手愛哪需報酬
\n\n活埋自己 為留住你
\n\n便無視她於街邊輕輕挽著你的手
\n\n暗地裡顫抖
\n\n天生不懂委屈
\n\n根本我的體質
\n\n討好你深得你心愛哪需理由
\n\n漸失去自尊也越討厭自己 最後
\n\n卑躬屈膝 通通接受
\n\n討好你得心應手愛哪需報酬
\n\n活埋自己 為留住你
\n\n若難受轉身偷偷清洗按住那傷口
\n\n太怕你會走
\n\n收起堅強
\n\n飾演羔羊
\n\n美麗善良
\n\n多麼卑微
\n\n精準演技
\n\n不識穿你
\n\n能令你 愉快嗎 我在努力抹淚痕
\n\n你在努力愛別人
\n\n討好你甘心痛心最愛的理由
\n\n羞愧自卑究極討厭自己最後
\n\n扭曲身心 含淚接受 ha 太怕放手
\n\n討好你不肯放手愛哪可強求
\n\n沒懲罰你 為留住你
\n\n願承受千夫所指掩飾你的荒謬
\n\n美化每寸傷口
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